Taboo Topic: Family Secrets
#3 in a series of 8
Originally published in On Purpose Woman Magazine Jan/Feb 2022
Now, that the holidays are over, let’s talk about family.
In December, you probably received cards with family photos of people smiling and wearing matching outfits. Or you saw photos like this in your social media newsfeed from random friends. Maybe there was a holiday letter that spoke about everyone’s accomplishments in 2021.
How many of those holiday messages included anything real outside of the perfection that is labeled as success? Did anyone write about how they really struggled this year? Or how they had a bad year in their business? Loss of a job? Relationship break-up?
What if holiday letters included struggles and life lessons? For example, someone sharing they were evicted from their home and how vulnerable and humiliating that was. Then they shared it woke them up to the housing insecurity that millions of people experience every year and how that changed their view of the world. They share that someone helped them and that they started volunteering at a homeless shelter to provide support for others. Now, that would be inspirational! Happy New Year!
Right now, I am on a break from my family: my mother, brother, and sister. I wouldn’t call it estrangement because I haven’t…
